By Robert S. Brandt
"Heavy duty stuff," I said to myself. I was crowded into a small room at Vanderbilt Hospital listening to
a doctor tell three twenty-something-year-olds that there was no hope for their father, one of my good
friends. Machines were keeping him alive. They had to decide whether to pull the plug. This decision
was forced on these young adults because two years earlier, cancer had claimed their mother. Now they had
lost their father as well. He had succeeded in his mission. He had taken his
own life. He committed suicide.
It made no sense. Sure, he had lost his spouse, but that happens to every
couple sooner or later. And he loved his children more than anyone can
imagine. Yet he had hanged himself in the family home while his two sons
slept nearby. They found him early in the morning. But I suppose suicide
doesn’t make a lot of sense to most of us.
That’s the closest I’ve been to a suicide. It’s not the only time, however,
that I’ve known someone who committed suicide. Two of my fellow judges
took their lives with firearms when I was a judge. A college student who I
knew through my church did the same recently. And last year, 2006, three
Nashville lawyers committed suicide.
After the third, I called Sheree Wright, then the NBA president, to suggest
that we as lawyers can’t just sit and watch this happen. We should try something.
I had no idea what.
Sheree was already working on it. She had attended the memorial service for Charlie Williams and had
been inspired by the remarks by Charlie’s psychiatrist.
She knew, too, that some lawyers in the crowd had
contacted the doctor about their own problems, and
that still others had contacted the Williams family
seeking help. I accepted Sheree’s invitation to serve on
the task force she was convening. I joined several
lawyers who had already been in touch with Sheree.
We gathered initially late last fall. The first thing
we learned was that there is already a program in
place to help lawyers with mental health problems. It’s
the Tennessee Lawyers Assistance Program, or TLAP,
an official arm of the state supreme court. I had some
vague idea that there was something out there that
helped lawyers with addictions, but I wasn’t aware of what it is called or where it is. I had forgotten about
the excellent article Nancy Corley wrote about it in the November 2004 Nashville Bar Journal. It just so
happens that the TLAP office is a few doors from my own office on Fourth Avenue in Nashville. I learned
that TLAP assists lawyers with all mental health issues, not just addictions.
Our NBA task force does not need to reinvent the wheel. We do, however, need to support TLAP and
make it known to all Nashville lawyers. I’m in my 41st year as a member of the Nashville bar. If I was
unaware of TLAP, perhaps others are too. I’m on a subcommittee that is charged with the task of making
Nashville lawyers aware of TLAP and its services. That’s why I’ve written this article.
The accompanying box provides the contact information for TLAP. If you or someone you know is
struggling, get in touch with TLAP. Retain this contact information in a convenient place so you can use it
if the need arises.
None of us knows whether the recent lawyer suicides could have been prevented. None of us knows
how to prevent it. We are, though, accustomed in our profession to seeking outside expert help when we
need it. If there is a problem, use the experts who are there just for our profession.
Robert S. Brandt is a retired Chancery Court judge who is a mediator and arbitrator with the law firm of Trauger & Tuke.
Robert S. Brandt, 615-265-8585, email@example.com
First published in the Nashville Bar Journal
, March 2007, Vol. 7, No. 2.
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